I'm so sick of this. It seems like you can't win for losing around here.
If your having fertility treaments to get pregnant you get told your being irresponsible and that you should adopt a child instead of forcing a pregnancy. If your planning to adopt you better not doing it internationally because God forbid the child not come from your home country. Don't ask me what the hell a couple from 2 different countries are supposed to do.
Then if you do adopt domestically your being to picky by only accepting American children. If you adopt a child that has handicaps your taking on to much and if you adopt a baby your being selfish for not taking a "hard to adopt" child.
WHY THE HELL DOES IT MATTER HOW WE GROW OUR FAMILY?? It's OUR family!!
This journey is hard enough. Why do people think it's any of there business?
I'm sorry. I'm just looking for answers I guess. It's been a bad day.
Asked by Anonymous at 6:07 PM on Jan. 29, 2010 in Adoption
Answer by BJoan at 6:11 PM on Jan. 29, 2010
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Answer by ObbyDobbie at 6:20 PM on Jan. 29, 2010
I give my opinions on cafemom and in real life if it comes up. You do what you want you want about adoption. Don't let our opinions effect your decisions.Hope you feel better soon:)
Answer by louise2 at 6:28 PM on Jan. 29, 2010
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