Hi ladies i'm at my wits end and really don't want to have a broken home over this, but nothing i do seems to get him motivated.
he's been unemployed for two yrs in march we are currently on welfare.besides financially our relationship is a daily struggle.he is home and we barely ever see him. he sits days upon days in HIS room in front of the computer, I don't want to get rid of the internet because i work at home online and need it for my online schooling. but it's become a sickness! i ask him to help with simple chores trash and the the bird cage nothing else. and i do it on my own i have toddler twin boys and i do it all. we go places we have freinds we are always out and about, i trully deserve a greatmom award ( i think). O.K. seriously what can i do? I have catered to him(coffee and breakfast every morning, in bed) i have screamed, i cry and i ask nicely and eventually he may do it but it takes days & its so fustrating
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