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How due u stop 5yr from putting his hand down his pants to feel for his penis, throughout the day?

5yr old, no matter what i put on him he tends too unzip his pants or elastic band pull out and stick his hand to feel for his privates, numbersous times throughout the day..while watching tv, playing with toys, on the comp? if he has both hands busy i dont see it but if one is availbale then 9 out of 10 times. his pres school teach notices this too but did mention to him not too due that in school so i think he waits until he goes home. she hasnt said much latley.. if i mention to him does it burn,, itch ect but he says no just makeing sure its there...any suggesins?

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sheilla7670

Asked by sheilla7670 at 2:51 AM on Jan. 31, 2010 in School-Age Kids (5-8)

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  • Tell him that it is inappropriate to do that he can see that it is there at potty time and bath time and that is enough, you have to make him stop doing it and tell him no over and over
    truealaskanmom

    Answer by truealaskanmom at 2:57 AM on Jan. 31, 2010

  • tell him that is something he can do in his alone time. When he is in the bath or alone in his room. But his private parts are only for him and no one else needs to see him touching them.
    outstandingLove

    Answer by outstandingLove at 3:16 AM on Jan. 31, 2010

  • at times i use the nices voice and tell him he should due that in his room or bathroom cause no one needs to see his pee pee other then him. then he gets amotional, almost too tears.. then he stops for abit then continues..in a nervous kinda action..he getting better slowly.....thanks for the advise...ladies
    sheilla7670

    Answer by sheilla7670 at 3:22 AM on Jan. 31, 2010

  • Assure him that it isn't going anywhere he seems to be afraid it is going somewhere like somebody told him it could, talk to him about it and see what he says.
    truealaskanmom

    Answer by truealaskanmom at 3:35 AM on Jan. 31, 2010

  • rolling on floor if you figure out how to get him to stop lemme know, my husband (not in public of course) can't keep his hands off his either! Can't tell you the # of times I've looked over while watching tv or driving & he's just checking it ahhhh men...

    Nyx7

    Answer by Nyx7 at 9:04 AM on Jan. 31, 2010

  • Tell him it's a private thing that can only be done in the bathroom. Each time you catch him send him tell him to go potty. Eventually, he'll get upset that you think he has to go potty all the time and quit.
    motherofhope98

    Answer by motherofhope98 at 9:33 AM on Jan. 31, 2010

  • tell him if he don't quit touching it that it could fall off
    shay1130

    Answer by shay1130 at 10:18 AM on Jan. 31, 2010

  • I also would just tell him it is okay to touch it but only when he is in his bedroom by himself. If youa re not in the room and walk in then you need to say..okay someone is in the room please stop touching it!
    IMAMOM2-2KIDS

    Answer by IMAMOM2-2KIDS at 12:17 PM on Jan. 31, 2010

  • Tell him that if he would like to have his hands in his pants he will need to do that in his room. He will either take you up on it and you will no longer be subject to watch or he will stop. Touching himself is not a bad thing it is just a private thing. teach him modesty that's all.
    But_Mommie

    Answer by But_Mommie at 2:49 PM on Jan. 31, 2010

  • i think that never stops once they discover that thing! LOL
    but i suggest telling him its ok to touch yourself but that is a PRIVATE thing. you do that in your room without other peopel around.
    sati769leigh

    Answer by sati769leigh at 7:25 AM on Feb. 2, 2010

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