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I keep hearing that the answer is no, and I just want to know for sure. He wants me to follow him across the country when he is stationed to live with him, but I heard someone say that to the military I would "just" be a girlfriend. And that they won't allow him to live off base being he would be single. Is this true?
And if this is true, how can I make it possible to move, maybe thousands of miles away, just to be with him? I am barely affording what I have here, and I don't know if I can afford the move if it is all up to me.
Asked by Anonymous at 11:20 AM on Feb. 1, 2010 in Just for Fun
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Answer by Zakysmommy at 11:29 AM on Feb. 1, 2010
Girlfriends have no rights in military life. If I where you I would tell him either marry me or I am not going anywhere with you. I was in your situation 21 years ago. I would never follow a man across country. Unless I had a job their. I could take care of myself financially.
Answer by louise2 at 11:35 AM on Feb. 1, 2010
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