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another baby!!!!!!!! I am sinlge so of course I want to married first. But I am getting damn cloaseto 30, and never wanted my kids too many years apart, and dont want an only child. UGH

My maternal clock is ticking big time!
How do I make it stop? LOL (since I have no man, so its not an option right now)

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Asked by mommymeg03 at 1:37 PM on Feb. 2, 2010 in General Parenting

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    Answer by Anonymous at 1:38 PM on Feb. 2, 2010

  • He will come along, don't look for him.

    When he does, if you were meant to have another child you will, but it would be a blessing to you both, and your new hubby. Soon too come, I was not looking and he came knocking... Just don't rush, it is hard work!!!

    Answer by KFree907 at 1:38 PM on Feb. 2, 2010

  • not going out of the way to look.
    Just the baby clock ticking :)

    Answer by mommymeg03 at 1:40 PM on Feb. 2, 2010

  • try to reverse the situation - imagine you have a daughter now, or if you have one already or think of a niece or a friend's girl child who confided in you they so wanted a baby but could have one by birth or adopt - what would your advice to them be?

    probably you'd say they're still worthy women in life in this world with out a child or with only x children. could you imagine yourself suggesting volunteering to nurture children?

    I have three kids, two are daughters.

    I don't know if they will have children born or adopted from them. I wanted children of my own since preteen years and I'm now in my fifties. When God blessed me with them I didn't know and don't know even though they're teens through midtwenties now, if they'd have their own children.

    I remind them very often that their souls can be nurtured and loves in life grown through volunteer work no matter what realities we're given. Maybe they can't have kids.

    Answer by lfl at 1:58 PM on Feb. 2, 2010

  • lfl here ... meant if a young woman confided in you that they could not have a baby born to them or adopt - what would your advice be?

    and anony1238 oh sigh just love it!!!! me personally I want a man in my life who doesn't love computers gadgets more than me.

    Answer by lfl at 2:01 PM on Feb. 2, 2010

  • And I want my kid on her own so I can resume my life!!

    Answer by rkoloms at 5:39 PM on Feb. 2, 2010

  • LMAO rkoloms

    Answer by mommymeg03 at 8:33 PM on Feb. 2, 2010

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