We both love dirty talk, although my hubby is much better at it than I am. Kind of another version on the fantasy thing, because I don't role play or fantasize about other people or scenarios, but I do get very very very lost in my husband when we are having sex. Everything else outside of him and I just doesn't exist (yes, quite passionate!). So when I am that into him I find that it just comes out. You need to find out what your hubby likes. Example, mine likes me to talk about his c*ck and how much I love it (hey, I do love it, haha) and what I am doing to him. He likes to talk about what he is doing to me or what he wants me to do to him or to myself, in graphic language. You don't have to scream out obscenities. And I find the more turned on I get, the hornier I am and more into we are, the more I have to say out loud and the easier it is.
at 1:19 PM on Feb. 4, 2010