I want to talk to him about him not beening here for the family and kids. He's always at work from 6 to 9-12pm, sometime later. When I bring up he don't spend no time with them or me and is there someone else; He just say what you don't want me to go to work. Then that friday he'll pick up his kid (no kid together) and want come home or call for weeks and want answer his calls. Then when Iget intouch with him then he tells me I said something to pis.. him off. But I notice at the some time the times he leaves is right around the time he say we are going to get a home. He have told me for three years straight we going to buy a home, but evertime we have save up the money to put down he find a reason or say I said something to pis.. him off that's way he left. Then he want pay the bill we he leave and tell me just to use the money we save. Am a fool or blind? Do he really want a home with me? He just left again got his onplacAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 4:13 AM on Feb. 4, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by officerdouglas at 4:45 AM on Feb. 4, 2010
Answer by tropicalmama at 6:19 AM on Feb. 4, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 6:55 AM on Feb. 4, 2010
It is time for you to get a job if you do not have one. And take the money you have saved and get your own place. So when he comes back, he will come back to a empty house.
I do not understand why you are putting up with his bull shit?
Answer by louise2 at 6:56 AM on Feb. 4, 2010
Answer by shortymichelle at 8:04 AM on Feb. 4, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 8:20 AM on Feb. 4, 2010
Are you two married? maybe the commitment of a house is scaring him, then he would be legally bond to you and he would have to be responsible. Talk to him and let him know your fears, and expectations, work out maybe a day or time that is for family time that works with his schedule. If that doesn't seem to help I would start working to make a more independent life from him. And let him know, get it together or expect child support paper work.
Answer by DevilInPigtails at 9:52 AM on Feb. 4, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 2:04 AM on Feb. 11, 2010