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me and my boyfriend of 3years don't use condoms but now he wants to. my question is what would u think? is he cheating?

what would u think?

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Asked by Anonymous at 9:55 PM on Feb. 5, 2010 in Relationships

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  • I wouldn't think he's cheating, I would think he's being smart! Do you think he is the type that would cheat? Have y'all had any problems recently? Has he given you any other reason to think he would be cheating besides wanting to use a condom??

    Answer by wishwish at 9:57 PM on Feb. 5, 2010

  • what PP said, if there are no other indicators, maybe he just doesn't want a baby?

    have you asked him WHY?

    Answer by ObbyDobbie at 9:59 PM on Feb. 5, 2010

  • Has he had any guy friends lately that discovered they were daddy's? This is more likely to drive him to condom use then cheating, most will just play both & not care if they infect another. Whatever the reason be glad he's protecting you! Yes there's something going on here but it may or may not be another girl. Go get tested.

    Answer by Nyx7 at 10:02 PM on Feb. 5, 2010

  • I would be questioning it to but it could be that h wants to be safe. If he is cheating at least he wants to keep you protected.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:02 PM on Feb. 5, 2010

  • I'd think his new gf doesn't want him getting you pregnant

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:07 PM on Feb. 5, 2010

  • i'd think he doesn't want a baby...if you want to know exactly why, ask him, without accusing him of cheating.

    Answer by thehairnazi at 10:16 PM on Feb. 5, 2010

  • Very Strange... I would worry

    Answer by Lorelai at 10:21 PM on Feb. 5, 2010

  • Hmm I dunno. I'm kind of on the fence with this one. Either he A. woke up and realized that what you guys are doing is stupid if you don't want a baby now or B. he might have something else going on.....

    Answer by Ash9724 at 10:43 PM on Feb. 5, 2010

  • my thinking is he actually got smart, realized he could get you preggers.

    Answer by sati769leigh at 8:46 AM on Feb. 6, 2010

  • If you're on BC then I'd suspect something, seriously. Kudos to the other posts for trying to give him credit but if he hasn't been worried about if for 3 years why worry now unless he thinks you're being unfaithful or he's being unfaithful...especially if you are on BC.

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:23 AM on Feb. 6, 2010

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