Backstory: I was molested/raped as a child/teen by a distant family member. I have forgiven him, and we actually have a cordial relationship. I see him fairly often at get-togethers, and we are always friendly, and it's a pretty easy thing to do. He is now married and has kids and truly seems to be a different person.
But I have lots of guilty feelings when I see his wife. He was dating her when he raped me, and I often wonder if I did the right thing by never telling her. I have no interest in ruining his life, but - did I do the right thing? What if he isn't different? What would you do?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:06 AM on Feb. 6, 2010 in Just for Fun
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