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would u make your so throw away picture from high school

Prom, homecomin and picture of ex girlfriends

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Asked by kadmomma at 10:22 AM on Feb. 7, 2010 in Just for Fun

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  • Not necessarily. I would first ask him why he feels the need to keep them around? and I would also ask him if he is living in the past? I would also let him know that if the pics in anyway, disrupt our relationship... Then he will have to choose either the pics or me.


    Answer by soonmommyof3 at 10:27 AM on Feb. 7, 2010

  • He still has pictures from prom, and all those kinds of things. If he had a picture of say his ex and him kissing and wanted to keep it I'd be a little worried. But I don't see anything wrong with high school memory pictures :)

    Answer by wahm_abbeyrose at 10:28 AM on Feb. 7, 2010

  • Why? I have him now-so what do those chicks have on me? Just a memory. I got the man and his, he can keep the pictures to remember how blessed he is to be with me. ;)

    Answer by Ann_Ony_Mouse at 10:29 AM on Feb. 7, 2010

  • I would never make him throw out any photos. I still have pictures of my exes floating around the house. When we come across them we laugh about them.

    Answer by Juggalette0327 at 10:34 AM on Feb. 7, 2010

  • No, I would not want him to throw away pictures from HS. Those are his memories.

    Answer by Pnukey at 10:38 AM on Feb. 7, 2010

  • Nah. I wouldn't make him throw them away. Those are his memories. Plus all of those people are now married with children. I think everyone likes to reminisce about prom and homecomming from time to time. It's all in how much you know your man.

    Answer by pebbleschild at 10:38 AM on Feb. 7, 2010

  • absolutely NOT...those pictures are part of his history - his life WHY whould I want him to throw them away?
    The things he did then and who he did them with helped make him who he is now

    Answer by charlotsomtimes at 10:42 AM on Feb. 7, 2010

  • Of course not. I wouldn't let him try to make me throw away yearbooks or pictures either. How insecure do you have to be to expect your SO to pretend they lived in a locked empty room until the day they met you?

    Answer by NotPanicking at 10:48 AM on Feb. 7, 2010

  • no those are his memories, why would I want him to throw it away? that would be downright selfish.

    Answer by LynnB1 at 11:03 AM on Feb. 7, 2010

  • No. I love seeing old pictures, including ones of ex girlfriends, although I'm not sure I have seen any yet :). It is part of who he is. I also wouldn't let him dictate that I throw away my photo memories that I have from any point in my life. That being said, they wouldn't be permitted to be framed and put in our home, but in a box or a photo album, sure.

    Answer by twin_mommy at 11:10 AM on Feb. 7, 2010

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