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why do i get soo nervous around my boyfriends i the only one

im get soo intimidated around his family.. i guess i want them too like me. im 19 his sister is 22 i used to think i was nervous arond her because of the age difference.. but i have friends who are 22. when im around her i try to be all serious but around my friends her age im soo goofey..with his mom i try not to say the wrong thing and try not to look stupid.. i've known them for 3 years now. ive been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years... why do i still get so nervous...i think i just want them to like me.

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Asked by Anonymous at 3:33 PM on Feb. 7, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Totally normal...I was with my x for 7 yrs. I always felt apprehensive when we were planning to see them and nervous and weird when I got there...idk why...I'm a goodball around my friends too, people generally like me and I don't necessarily have low self esteem or anything... ???

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:43 PM on Feb. 7, 2010

  • goodball? goofball...sorry :p

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:44 PM on Feb. 7, 2010

  • That sounds normal. It will get better. Just keep smiling! ;-)

    Answer by Lindalu2 at 6:16 PM on Feb. 7, 2010

  • I am nervous around my dh's stepmom but not around any of his other family. I get a wierd feeling from her. She is nice enough to me but I don't think that she thinks much of me.

    Answer by bjane01 at 10:33 PM on Feb. 7, 2010

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