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im do hurt please help =(

my husband said he was going for a walk at 1 am..very unusual for him...then few minutes later some woman pulls up in front of our house and he tries to leave with her. now he wants a divorce to be with her. things havent been the best between us but i thought things were going good..he met her tru work im just so crushed

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 3:40 PM on Feb. 8, 2010 in Relationships

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  • You cannot hold someone who doesn't want to be held. Get yourself a good lawyer because you'll need it. Rather than be hurt, BE MAD. You SHOULD be. YOU ARE NOT AT FAULT. Your HUSBAND is. And remember...he's NOT a man. REAL MEN don't do this.
    gdiamante

    Answer by gdiamante at 3:45 PM on Feb. 8, 2010

  • I'm sorry you're hurting but you can't force someone to stay and love you. Let him go.

    legalmommy101

    Answer by legalmommy101 at 3:42 PM on Feb. 8, 2010

  • i am so very very sorry honey, its NOT your fault. he did this and its all on him. i hope you find healing
    sati769leigh

    Answer by sati769leigh at 3:48 PM on Feb. 8, 2010

  • Well let him go if he wants some other women then so be it. The hurt will go away it will take time Don't take him back when this women decides she is done with him and she kicks him to the curb I am a believer in ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER. He is a cheat not just to you but the children that are involved.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:54 PM on Feb. 8, 2010

  • Wow very very sad, i totally agree with legalmommy
    BUSYLOVINGHIM

    Answer by BUSYLOVINGHIM at 3:58 PM on Feb. 8, 2010

  • And how do you KNOW it is solely HIS fault?
    Not knowing both sides of the story, I will refrain from ASSuming anything myself.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:05 PM on Feb. 8, 2010

  • What do you mean HE TRIED TO LEAVE WITH HER?? You mean you ran out to stop him??? Move on with your life, he sounds like a POS anyway!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:17 PM on Feb. 8, 2010

  • That is really low and scum with that piece of garbage that he hooked up with.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:38 PM on Feb. 8, 2010

  • Of course you are hurt, BUT now that the truth is out there you can begin the healing process. You deserve better.
    figaro8895

    Answer by figaro8895 at 5:45 PM on Feb. 8, 2010

  • Maybe you should think about yourself now and cut him loose so you can move on
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:11 PM on Feb. 8, 2010

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