My libido is li-gone-o! I haven't had sex with DH in almost 5 years. What's wrong with me?
I was sexually abused when I was a child, so sex was never of huge interest to me in the first place. DH is into kinky stuff and I get embarrassed to play the roles he wants me to play.
I'm afraid he's going to leave me if I don't start showing some interest.
Asked by Anonymous at 3:48 PM on Feb. 8, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by writeon at 3:53 PM on Feb. 8, 2010
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Answer by tropicalmama at 3:58 PM on Feb. 8, 2010
If hubby likes it kinky and you were abused... I would think that is not a good match.
Is he willing to tone it down.. to get you back into the groove? 5 yrs is a LONG time to go with out and you will probably need a little easing into it all.
If he is unwilling to have 'regular' sex instead of kinky sex....My suggestion is to hug and kiss him and let him know that you really WANT to be intimate but you think you need to go to some counseling to work through the issues of abuse. And make sure to talk to the therapist about his desire to have it kinky.
Answer by Anonymous at 3:58 PM on Feb. 8, 2010
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