I'm been married for many years and no understand it. Living with someone that isn't an equal partner in a marriage isn't worth it anymore. I wish I had no bills and had enough money saved to divorce him and find something for my daughter and I. I hope I can get my bills gone by September and leave before my anniversary in November. I feel so lost sometimes, since I hate going home when he's home. I only love being home when my daughter is home. If he could be responsible and care for my daughter, the right way would also help. I hate when she leaves for school without her hair brushed, or without her teeth brushed and he not caring. What's wrong with men like this?? Irresponsibile and careless................Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 4:48 PM on Feb. 8, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by TarLion at 4:57 PM on Feb. 8, 2010
Answer by sati769leigh at 5:07 PM on Feb. 8, 2010
"not an equal partnership" "what is wrong with men like this"..... did he change or was he always like this and you changed?
You have to be very honest... did you choose poorly or did something change in the marriage?
If you choose poorly then it is NOT his fault... you chose to marry him. You can look in the mirror say "I made a mistake, and I will take responsibility to fix that mistake." But you can not blame him.
If something changed... then with work perhaps you can save the marriage. If it can change it can change back. Work to find what you use to have together. Try to put your frustrations a side and work as a team. If need be seek counseling alone, work on yourself, and see if he will come with or if he will start to change as you do. Act as if... and the feelings will follow.
Answer by Anonymous at 5:08 PM on Feb. 8, 2010
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