i wish someone knew me that could tell me what i come across as

you already answered your own question hon, you dont start and keep conversations going. are you shy? i know sometimes folks get tongue tied when they are trying to meet new folks

yeah i am shy but even around ppl i know im like this.. my hubby is so outgoing i wish i had his personality. He always tells ppl hey whats going on and if i say something i always feel like im getting ignore or just like short worded. im so bad with conversations i guess im boring and dont have alot to talk about and i definately hate drama and bragging like most like to do it seems like. im usually the quiet one who listens. i jsut wish i could find a good friend i could hang and have our kids play topgether. Im trying to join a moms group and im hoping it will help with my problem. The wierd thing is i was not like this in high school i had alot of friends and i was so outgoing now im a mom and wife and thats what i do. Moving away from family and having a child really changed who i am

I'll be 30 in ... ugh ... a short amount of time ... and I'm the same way. Sucks. But at the same time I kind of like my "hermit" life, I don't have to worry about the latest fashions and what an ass I look like ;).

where do you live? I'm 30 I'll b your friend...I only have 3 thanx to dh's job...