his mom has very little contact with him. they talk on the phone but dont see each other much. when they do see each other - its a mess. he comes back all angry and depressed and crying.... he wants to see him mom...but he is seriously "afraid" of the people she lives with. (one of many reasons why he is with us and not her) i am afraid with spring break coming that SHE will ask to have him for the break. he doesnt like staying in that house with those people..she knows that, but whines to him (8) about how much she misses him etc. (i say - then get your life in order, so he CAN live with you) ... my DH and I really dislike the idea of him going there for break, and summer soon... how can we avoid this? its horrible for him when he comes back "home"...he is in counseling and very sensitive.... ??? help?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 11:14 AM on Feb. 9, 2010 in School-Age Kids (5-8)
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Answer by Anonymous at 11:41 AM on Feb. 9, 2010
how would you feel if someone took your child away when you were going threw a difficult time in your life? try and look at things threw mom's point of view... also talk to the child's counselor and tell him/her that the breaks are coming up and what is his professional opinion on the child spending time with mom? if child want to go then you should let him.
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Answer by Anonymous at 5:27 PM on Feb. 9, 2010
Hello there.I have been there.I have a 6 yrs old that i have since he was a baby.I have adopted him.His father comes into he life when he want to.I had to stop.Do not come in to his life and live then come back when u want to he s human like u.His mother (my daughter0 try that to but i had to stop that to.They have to grow today.Y would they hurt there child.We did not do that to them i was a single then and know i will keep going.If u need to talk i am here for u i have been doing this for so many yrs know i love kids.
Answer by mommy110107 at 6:19 PM on Feb. 9, 2010