we've been together for almost 2.5 yrs. he wants to get married but is pretty much terrified of proposing and the wedding, well, he'll show up but i better not expect his input on it. stuff like that scares him. i know, i'm lucky. commitment=no prob but everything else he'll hyperventalate about. if im going to get proposed to, it better be one of those, he drops to a knee and she starts crying, moments. well, between his comfort levels and his inability to keep a secret from me, i am pretty sure i am not going to get that. i'll get, "um, i got you a ring. i want to propose to you, so, here it is."
that really makes me feel like i am pressuring him but i'm not. and bless his heart he tries to overcome himself by buying other jewlery trying to throw me off of a surprise but i still don't know how he will pull this off.
i am the surpriser. maybe both of us might enjoy it more if i propose even if it kinda ruins my dream.
Answer by truealaskanmom at 5:47 PM on Feb. 9, 2010
Answer by TarLion at 5:52 PM on Feb. 9, 2010
Answer by spazlilsister at 5:56 PM on Feb. 9, 2010
Answer by truealaskanmom at 5:59 PM on Feb. 9, 2010
Answer by tropicalmama at 5:59 PM on Feb. 9, 2010
Answer by spazlilsister at 6:02 PM on Feb. 9, 2010
Answer by spazlilsister at 6:10 PM on Feb. 9, 2010
Answer by spazlilsister at 6:13 PM on Feb. 9, 2010
Answer by haydsmom2007 at 10:44 PM on Feb. 9, 2010
Check out some of the top posts today in Groups: