I'm 44. My boyfriend is 8 years older and still has a sex drive and now because of discomfort and lack of desire as well as not being able to have orgasams anymore I don't feel like we should even sleep in the same bedroom because all it does is get him turned on when I'm getting nothing. He's going to be mad if I don't try or worse if I fake , but how can I be expected to give him what he wants when my vagina and clitoris burn like hell, my hormones won't let me, and the only way I can get off is in the shower (SELF STIMULATION & TOYS DON'T WORK BECAUSE I DON'T HAVE ENOUGH LUBE & I GUESS MY ESTROGEN LEVELS HAVE DROPPED). My periods have not stopped yet so I can't go on HRT. If I can't get my gyno to agree to at least put me on estrogen cream or suppositories, is it even worth trying to save my relationship, I can give him PLENTY but will get nothing sexually?
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