So I enjoy being with my BF and everything but iv become bored. It seems like we do the same thing day in and day out..every day. I know usually thats what marriage is like so If i ever want to be married I better get used to it right? Well I dont know..weve been dating for 2 years and I feel like something should happen. Like im tired of going over to his parents house and him coming to mine. I want a house of our own but everytime we talk about it all he says is "Now isnt the time" It seems like it will never become the "time". Help..Iv become bored and I dont want to beAnswer Question
Answer by Anonymous at 12:06 AM on Feb. 10, 2010
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Answer by Anonymous at 12:13 AM on Feb. 10, 2010
I honestly think HE is not ready for that kind of commitment. So either you will have to wait for him to be or move on. It's the hard and sad truth... but it is what it is.
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 12:41 AM on Feb. 10, 2010
I wonder if you are not so much bored, but tired of having to listen to parents rules while in this relationship. You said that you are tired of having to go to his house and vice versa and you want to get a house of your own. You need to remember that a house is a huge responsibility and takes money. If neither one of you are bringing in good money, he is right. You are not ready to go on your own. There is nothing worse than signing a year long lease and then being kicked out because some one lost their job or is not making enough money as it is. Please be patient. Things will come in their own time. And you need to start planning fun activities for you to do. They don't have to cost anything, a picnic in the park, rent a movie, game night. Anything will do.
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