I got pregnant at 16 got married the same year and had DD at 18. Shes COMPLETELY healthy and the love of my life. I smoked prior to being pregnant but hte day i even SUSPECTED i was pregnant i quit, which was HARD. neither dh or i smoke, drink or do stupid shit and we both attend college F/T and he works F/T too. Not on PA, but people assume we are. Hes mexican and was born in Mexico but people say oh, hes illegal. Even though were married and his naturalization paperwork is in the mail being processed *his dad got citizenship when he was a minor* but people still feel the need to hate.
Especially now that were TTC. Why IYO do people make snap assumations? Everyone does it. I do it too, but I dont act on them and i try not to bash. Why do people feel that if your young with a baby your worse than crap?
Remember when you assume, it makes an ass of u n me
Answer by Anonymous at 1:59 PM on Feb. 10, 2010
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Answer by shortycmlb at 6:48 AM on Feb. 10, 2010
I don't automatically assume a teen parent is an irresponsible parent. I do consider a teen who got herself pregnant to at one time have been irresponsible. As well as that teens parents for not preparing their teen. Motherhood can change a person no matter their age. Some realize they can no longer party and have to become responsible young adults. Others pawn off their kids on grandma and still party. Those are the irresponsible ones.
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