So SO and myself have been great, nothing really to argue over lately. Well a few new girls started working with him recently. Unfortunately one of them got into a bad accident. He was the only one that showed he cared, he called to make sure she made it to the hospital atleast (she broke both legs and has to have a brace on her back for awhile). He has such a big heart, but he asked me today if it would be ok for him to go by the hospital ( i apreciate him asking). Thats not my problem, my concern is that this girl JUST left her husband before she started working with him, so shes in a vulnerable spot, and if my SO keeps showing her attention even if its just friendly becuase of the situation, do you think shes gonna catch feelings?! What would you do? I kinda want to talk to him about it tonight just to give him a heads up as to what he could be walking into...but i dont want to argue over it!!!!
Asked by Anonymous at 9:05 PM on Feb. 10, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Hesmynavyman at 3:31 AM on Feb. 11, 2010
Answer by PURPULbutterfly at 9:11 PM on Feb. 10, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 9:17 PM on Feb. 10, 2010
My dh runs a business so he gets calls all hours (the business runs 24/7). If anyone gets hurt he always calls and if they go to the hospital he will go and visit them to make sure all is well - even if they are just there for an hour, he's there. I know he is their boss so it makes it appropriate. If it's a coworker, I think a call would be sufficient. Another idea would be that you go with him so that she knows he's taken and not available!
Answer by TowmaGirl at 9:30 PM on Feb. 10, 2010
Answer by Allergic2Stupid at 10:52 PM on Feb. 10, 2010
Answer by jeanclaudia at 11:09 PM on Feb. 10, 2010
Answer by Hesmynavyman at 3:34 AM on Feb. 11, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 7:04 AM on Feb. 11, 2010