i got the adoption papers in the mail a few days ago and the only time i can seem to be able to pic them up and fill them out is when i'm angry or upset about something idk what to doAnswer Question
Answer by sati769leigh at 5:01 AM on Feb. 11, 2010
Answer by baconbits at 10:11 AM on Feb. 11, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 12:18 PM on Feb. 11, 2010
I understand from your home page that you are only 3 months pregnant. You absolutely should NOT be signing anything at this point. The choice to give your child up for adoption needs to be made twice. You can decide now to make an adoption plan, but after your child is born, when you really know what it is you are about to give up, can you really decide. Not only that, being in a heightened emotional state of any kind is not the time to sign papers. You should be completely calm and rational. At that point you should be able to take as long as you need to make up your mind. After all until then you are plainly a mother just like any other and at no obligation to give your child to anyone. There's nothing that says you have to sign in the hospital either. If your agency/facilitator is pressuring you to sign something now, they are clearly not an ethical agency. Run, don't walk, away from them and find another agency.
Answer by onethentwins at 12:45 PM on Feb. 11, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 1:03 PM on Feb. 11, 2010
Isnt it a sad world when the statement that you are going to bring a living breathing person into the world is shown the with following graphic on your page. You will be okay. Maybe you will place the baby for adoption, maybe you will not. But no matter what, you were trusted with one of the most amazing jobs on the planet, you get to... you are honored to... bring new life onto this planet. That is an amazing thing, stop and think about that. You have a ton of time to make the other decisions and deal with the babys bio dad, just relax and try to enjoy this little miracle.
Answer by Anonymous at 1:29 PM on Feb. 11, 2010
Answer by baconbits at 1:54 PM on Feb. 11, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 2:35 PM on Feb. 11, 2010
Answer by doodlebopfan at 10:12 PM on Feb. 11, 2010
Baconbits you must be related to my poor husband a very smart man but can't spell cat.He worships spellcheck his new religion.
Answer by Anonymous at 10:19 PM on Feb. 12, 2010