i hate my parents because they made a arranged marriage for me, i never though they could do it because in my house we did not follow every muslim rules, because i always used a normal clothes and than one they i heard my dad saying to my mom that she should prepare me for marriage, so like i say she promise me that he was not talking about me, and she promise that i will not get married.I always express to my parents that i love to stud that i would like to travel and things like that and than when i follow in love i would married, but if they knew why they did that to? i still ask myself why? why?How can someone always saying that love me and that he will always protect me and than he do what he did? i'm talkin about my dad
Now i feel that they never love because i can't understand why! i begged so many times.i Remember the day of my married party i cry and i always keep saying mom please help, than i had to sleep with him.
Answer by MizLee at 1:27 PM on Feb. 11, 2010
How old are you?
So in the end of your post you say you ARE married and had to sleep with him? Not sure I understood that part, but it there anyway that you can do what you want bc your mom sounds like she might help you but seems to be in the middle of this between you and your dad. If you live here in the states then you should live here like an american...If not then there is not much you can do but follow through that is the muslim belief...Hope you find what you aee looking for....GL
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