We had plans with friends tomorrow night, these plans were made weeks ago and i was just told that they have changed those plans and i have no say. it is 1 am how do you change plans like that? i had a sitter lined up, had to juggle everyones schedules and make this work and they (2 couples) changed the plans without calling first to see if it would work for us. I am peeved, maybe i shouldnt be but i am, its as if my thoughts dont matter. My hubby has to work so their plans would make it impossible for him to attend for very long. I am trying to just work it out and not get mad but seriously? Why dont people consider everyone involved when making changes?
Asked by Anonymous at 4:01 AM on Feb. 13, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by 5BabyBees at 9:18 AM on Feb. 13, 2010
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Answer by Anonymous at 7:35 AM on Feb. 13, 2010
Take 5babybees advice and go out while you can! And I agree with the post right before hers, friendship must be two way. I do feel that sometimes my friends don't care, but than when I need them most they always just show up. We are all human and sometimes do things that we didn't realize would even hurt our friend. Do they usually make decisions and you just go along? Maybe they figured that you wouldn't care if they change it or not? I would say something to them to let them know that you are disappointed they did this to you and now you can't go.
Answer by TowmaGirl at 10:52 AM on Feb. 13, 2010
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