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why do i get jealous?
how can i get rid of my jealousy?


Asked by Anonymous at 4:24 PM on Feb. 13, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (8)
  • His coworker shouldn't be texting him. Period. My x used to check out other women...he would be talking with me and when a girl, (not even a girl who was necessarily prettier than me) would pass by us he would forget what he was saying, stop talking and just totally check her out, I thought is was rude as hell...your man should be more considerate of your feelings, that's just not nice...theres a reason why my x is an x...I didn't enjoy feeling insecure, the way he made me feel., I deserve better and so do you. There are men in this world that know how to treat their women like a princess, none of us deserve any less than to feel that way, feeling loved is the most important thing in a relationship.

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:52 PM on Feb. 13, 2010

  • What is it you are jealous of?

    Answer by KairisMama at 4:25 PM on Feb. 13, 2010

  • Jealousy is due to insecurity. Work on having confidence in yourself and in your relationship.

    Answer by admckenzie at 4:26 PM on Feb. 13, 2010

  • Husband? Of what? It kind of depends, sometimes it is a VALID feeling more info please!!

    Answer by kimigogo at 4:29 PM on Feb. 13, 2010

  • your jelous because you've been done wrong before,and you take it out on the new realtionship,that or your very insacure.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:56 PM on Feb. 13, 2010

  • If it's because your SO cheated or flirst inappropriately with other women, or spends an unusual amount of time around the opposite sex then I can understand. UNLESS your SO admitted to cheating and had changed and made the point of keeping true and making all the necessary changes and you have forgiven him; than that is just wrong and you need to let him go because you're not ready to be in a relationship.
    Also, if your always jealous with no valid reason then you need to spend some time on your own out of a relationship, because excessive jealousy is a real sign that you're insecure and unless you want to create a reason for your SO to cheat on you, learn to have confidence in yourself first, and then you can find the right person and trust them too.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:58 PM on Feb. 13, 2010

  • my SO looks at other women... n i get upset. not rudely, full out looks, jus glances.. but i get mad
    i have never had this problem before.. until this relationship..
    and i hate it. i dont want to be jealous. but i feel like he has made me this way..
    i get mad when he gets on his phone...
    he had a problem before with his ex talking to him inappropiatly. they dont talk any more.. but i still get upset.
    he has a co-worker (female) who used to text him every morning.. about things she could talk about at work..
    he has never cheated. or really lied. i just dont like these things.
    please give me helpful advise.
    i dont want to be jealous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:08 PM on Feb. 13, 2010

  • I don't think your insecure, I think your man is a bit of a jerk....if he knew how to love you you wouldn't feel like that.

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:53 PM on Feb. 13, 2010