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Sex question..TMI

DH will be coming home soon from his first deployment....well before he left he had to do some training for it which was a month and a half we had no sex for a month and a half..well i got to see him one last time for 2 days before he left for his actual deployment...and we had ALOT of 5-6 times a day for those 2 days...soo by the end of it I was sooo sore and it started hurting when we were having im worried about it happening again this it normal and is there anything I can do to keep it from happening again? besides not having sorry TMI

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Asked by Anonymous at 9:53 PM on Feb. 13, 2010 in Just for Fun

Answers (5)
  • Maybe limit the amount of actual intercourse you have, have more foreplay and oral. Also, try to avoid much "rough" sex. Lots of lube. That's all I can tell you. My husband is gone for extensive periods of time and sometimes I just have to deal with the aftermath, lol. I know what you mean though.

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:56 PM on Feb. 13, 2010

  • Just make sure you have LOTS of lube. Also you might try different methods of pleasing each other without penetration.

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 9:56 PM on Feb. 13, 2010

  • Astroglide!!! This stuff is great. I used to get "sex injuries" when DH and I first got together bc we went at it so many timea a day....then I found astroglide. Now no more soreness afterwards.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:08 PM on Feb. 13, 2010

  • yup...astroglide.....

    Answer by Allergic2Stupid at 10:11 PM on Feb. 13, 2010

  • Yes it's normal for any body tissue when subjected to more friction to become irritated. I agree with the previous post. Lots of lube and Vaseline. Lube it up during, Vaseline after to moisturize.

    Answer by Sammieanne at 10:29 PM on Feb. 13, 2010

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