i was hurt when i first found out and was ready to leave but his affair brought up issues that we ignored...so we been working on them and really our marriage has never been better.
Asked by Anonymous at 5:55 PM on Feb. 14, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by LynnB1 at 8:18 PM on Feb. 14, 2010
Answer by admckenzie at 6:02 PM on Feb. 14, 2010
Answer by outstandingLove at 6:02 PM on Feb. 14, 2010
Not strange, but just be careful your not going through another "honeymoon" phase. Wanting to fix a marriage is great. But do not allow the cheating to go undiscussed. Nor allow your husband to get off free just cuz he's sorry. Maybe a counselor or pastor can help both of you set boundaries so the temptation is not there. Good luck.
Answer by CKasting at 6:03 PM on Feb. 14, 2010
Not strange at all but you should address the reasoning why he cheated to begin with. Right now of course he is going to try super hard and so will you to keep the marriage together. Just make sure to see a counselor to discuss why he cheated in the first place. If you two do not see a counselor and discuss the matter at hand, you could be setting yourselves up for more heartbreak. I am glad it is working out but make sure to follow through with seeing someone who can help you both.
Answer by pnwmom at 6:22 PM on Feb. 14, 2010
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