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Is it a good idea if u left the dad a month after baby was born to start dating again?

I dont want to damege my sons life in any way!

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iloveyou5

Asked by iloveyou5 at 8:50 PM on Feb. 14, 2010 in Relationships

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  • It's too soon. Focus on your son now.
    Pnukey

    Answer by Pnukey at 8:53 PM on Feb. 14, 2010

  • Yeah, your son is too young for you to be leaving him to go on dates.
    SaraP1989

    Answer by SaraP1989 at 8:55 PM on Feb. 14, 2010

  • I think so.. Jumping from one relationship to the next is never a good thing. You need time to heal, grow and learn from that relationship before a new one can begin. Not to mention the fact that a new relationship takes alot of time and with a new baby, someones needs wont be met.. Focus on yourself and the baby right now.
    midnightmoma

    Answer by midnightmoma at 8:59 PM on Feb. 14, 2010

  • yes too early you haven't had time to just think & focus on your baby..
    maiahlynn

    Answer by maiahlynn at 8:59 PM on Feb. 14, 2010

  • to start dating the dad again? no.
    to start dating anyone else...if you are looking for a serious relationship then yes. I think its best while they are young. It would be best to try to find someone while your child is young. When he is older it would be more of a problem. I would just make sure you use protection if you are having sex and are taking some form of bc because you wouldnt want to end up having another fatherless child.
    shay1130

    Answer by shay1130 at 9:00 PM on Feb. 14, 2010

  • If a man asks you out a month after you have another man's baby then go for it but don't be upset if he just wants a booty call
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:03 PM on Feb. 14, 2010

  • whata HOE!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:34 PM on Feb. 14, 2010

  • sure if think it's safe and you REALLY want to do it. nothing wrong with the dad watching him while you go "run errands"
    angevil53

    Answer by angevil53 at 9:46 PM on Feb. 14, 2010

  • dont look for anything serious because you do need to focus on yourself and your child...but i think its good for all new moms to get out once in a while and remember who they are outside of "mommy mode", especially single mommies
    LoriaAnn

    Answer by LoriaAnn at 9:56 PM on Feb. 14, 2010

  • It's unnecessary and a bit trampy. It seems like you have to have a man to feel good. You aren't even healed from giving birth. You could at least a few months.
    AllisaMyJoy

    Answer by AllisaMyJoy at 10:37 PM on Feb. 14, 2010

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