my DH is the worst ever after this ish right here. so i tried sexing him up on sat night. trying to bring some kind of spark back our lives, so i begin with the kissing on the neck and trying to make out with him, but its 12 am and all he can think ab is going to work at 10 the next morning. but i make him get up anyway and i try to act all into it, he is kissing my neck, breasts and put his hands in my underwear and WHAM...he blew it...literally, all over my leg like on American Pie. i asked him to go down bc i was so far from done and he went, but every few minutes he came up asking if i was done bc he was tired. so i never got to finish. and i tried again last night the sex was feeling good but it was over about 10 minutes after he started, so he went down again, but was so not into it and just doing it hoping i would finish but i could tell he didnt really want to do it. why does he not want to please me? i want good sexAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:16 AM on Feb. 15, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by mommymeg03 at 9:26 AM on Feb. 15, 2010
You can tell a lot about a person if they're selfish in bed. Enjoying pleasing someone sexually is a selfless act, you are only focused on that person....or the poor man is just tired. Putting a pillow under your butt may make the position more comfortable for him. I agree with starting this way. Maybe get some toys for him to use. If he has just stop caring about the effort you have bigger problems to address.
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