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ok is it wrong to look in a man phone that you are planning to date because you want to make sure that he not cheating or messing around before you date him

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applejacks2004

Asked by applejacks2004 at 6:01 PM on Feb. 15, 2010 in Relationships

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  • wrong no nuerotic yes, why would you date somebody that you already don't trust?
    truealaskanmom

    Answer by truealaskanmom at 6:02 PM on Feb. 15, 2010

  • If you aren't dating yet how could he be cheating on you? Am I missing something? Do you think he might be married or something?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:05 PM on Feb. 15, 2010

  • If you are not dating him yet. Then yes he could be dating or seeing someone else because he is not dating you. Also you have no right to look at someone elses property. Why should he then trust you if he found out you did that.

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:06 PM on Feb. 15, 2010

  • oh my lord seriously?? you sound way too clingy
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:08 PM on Feb. 15, 2010

  • ok i do trust him but with me being married and now its over cause i couldn't trust him for nothing now and now i know i'm not dating this guy yet i just want to make sure he's not doing anything i do trust him it's just i want to make sure he's serious and it's not like i hope i catch him doing anything and the other day when i did go in his phone him and his wife thats separated was sending texts to each other saying they wanna do sexual things to each other but he said she sent messages to his phone back and fourth and when i was there she sent him a picture of her ass so i responded back saying stop sending texts to my phone while my lady is here so he got mad and said he is done its not going to work do you think thats a cop out or do you think that he is right to just end it like that
    applejacks2004

    Answer by applejacks2004 at 6:14 PM on Feb. 15, 2010

  • look we have been talking for two in a half years and we planning on dating after we get our situation together and we said that if we gonna talk to someone let each other know
    applejacks2004

    Answer by applejacks2004 at 6:20 PM on Feb. 15, 2010

  • omg, you can't be serious. You check a married man's phone and get angry bc his wife sends him pix? Why are you with a married man anyway? Doesn't that tell you enough about him?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:51 PM on Feb. 15, 2010

  • If both of you are still married, i don't see why you are together.. Your other situation is not fixed yet and you are trying to catch a married man cheating on you.. God. You are more messed up then i thought.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:54 PM on Feb. 15, 2010

  • Yes, it is wrong to check his phone. No, he is not cheating on you because he is not with you. wow.
    Pnukey

    Answer by Pnukey at 10:23 PM on Feb. 15, 2010

  • You are PLANNING on dating him so you are not dating yet, so yeah, it's way wrong to be looking at his phone. And again, yeah, you both are married and you have the nerve to be upset because he is texting with his wife, whether they live together or not, or you live with your husband or not, you are both married and you have no right to be looking into his phone or interferring with whatever is going on between him and his wife. You both need to be divorced before you start dating and then you need to be dating a while before you are concerned with who is texting him what. As stated above, you are trying to catch a married man cheating on you??? I'd run from everyone.
    TarLion

    Answer by TarLion at 12:58 PM on Feb. 16, 2010

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