So my BF got back from over seas in June. He has been having troubles getting it up since we have been together...which has been since january. Before he didnt have this problem. Anyways. When he does get it up...he cums really quick. And ends up being really hard on him self about it. It doesnt bother me at all...I mean it sucks but whatever. I know he has issues and is having a really hard time adjusting to normal life again. I keep telling him over and over again its not a big issue cause honestly its not...He gets me off...so its not like im not getting my kicks too. BUt I just need some advice about how I can make him not feel so bad. Im running out of ideas. Thanks momma's!!Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 12:38 AM on Feb. 17, 2010 in Relationships
Well the first thing I would try to address is if he is depressed? then go from there. If that don't work I would start looking towards hormonal imbalance. and if that doesn't turn up any positive outcomes, i would look towards him possibly being gay. GL hun!
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 12:43 AM on Feb. 17, 2010
Answer by Skepticchick at 12:48 AM on Feb. 17, 2010
Answer by Skepticchick at 12:51 AM on Feb. 17, 2010
I did not say he was gay, I said if all else fails that could be A POSSIABLITY. please do not misconstrued my words and make me out to be the bad guy, which I am not. I was trying to be helpful and cover all the basis.
Oh and I don't in anyway agree that he is possibly gay here. If that were the case, why would he embarrass himself in front of you. Go to all that length to look straight... so far fetched.
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 12:53 AM on Feb. 17, 2010
Answer by Allergic2Stupid at 12:55 AM on Feb. 17, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 12:59 AM on Feb. 17, 2010
hmmm, sounds like he might have PTSD. Have you tried getting him to go to counsling and perhaps on some meds? Now the meds can also cause erectile dysfunction. but that may be the only thing that works for him, if he does have that.
Ya. He was in the army for 8 years and just recently got out at the end of Jan. He got injuryed really bad....and almost lost his leg. So Im pretty sure alot of it has to do with that. But I just dont know how to make him feel like its all ok. This is the poster BTW
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 1:01 AM on Feb. 17, 2010
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Answer by Anonymous at 1:22 AM on Feb. 17, 2010