Have anybody ever had their husband cheat or been with someone married. If so, please elaborate on your situation if you feel comfortable to do so. I am writing a college essay on mistresses, the effects the have on marriages, how things are, and so on. Even if you haven't been through it what would you if it was you.Answer Question
Answer by PrttyMstng at 10:49 AM on Feb. 17, 2010
I had two tell me they were widowers, which they were but forgot to tell me they got remarried after the first wife died. I find it interesting that your subject is how the MISTRESS affects the marriage when in fact it is his behavior that ultimately affects the marriage. Good luck on your paper though.
Answer by admckenzie at 11:12 AM on Feb. 17, 2010
I have not been cheated on and have not cheated. My dad and his current wife were both married when they had their affair with each other. They were both at fault for destroying their own marriages. I know more women who had affairs than men but they cheat for the same reasons they are self absorbed and want someone to make everything about them and make them happy. They find someone with low self esteem who will believe their crap and then start an affair. The other person is irrelevant because had it not been that person it would have been someone else they are no one special just someone that allows the married person to use them. There are some men and women who do target married people but again the married person can say no they don't have to cheat. Affairs don't just happen they are a choice the person makes.
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