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what would u ladies do if ur husband left u for another woman and then say u 2 got back togeather and he still talks to this other girl and does things for her ?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 11:53 AM on Feb. 17, 2010 in Relationships

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  • He hasn't really left her. Give him the boot.
    gdiamante

    Answer by gdiamante at 11:53 AM on Feb. 17, 2010

  • He's a jerk..He wants it both ways..Be done with him..As soon as you find someone he will know what he lost!

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:55 AM on Feb. 17, 2010

  • Aint happening. He would be out. Do not tolerate his selfishness.
    3gigglemonsters

    Answer by 3gigglemonsters at 11:59 AM on Feb. 17, 2010

  • It happened to me-several times. He finally learned that just because the grass is greener, it doesn't make it better. It's more than likely chemically treated and horrible for you.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:00 PM on Feb. 17, 2010

  • Oh...and he finally stopped doing stuff for the psycho b*tch, too.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:01 PM on Feb. 17, 2010

  • kick him out!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:05 PM on Feb. 17, 2010

  • The biggest problem I see about when cheaters care enough for the OW to actually leave is that he may never really get over her. If it's just a one night stand or a short lived fling and he regrets it then the marriage can be saved and even be stronger. It's those times when he really falls for her that can eat away at a marriage through doubt. (Is he thinking of her when we have sex? Does he still sneak around and see her?) Trust is a vital component of marriage.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 12:11 PM on Feb. 17, 2010

  • Hell no. He needs to choose one and let the other go completely. No communication whatsoever. If he can't choose, he's made his choice by default.
    MamaChamp

    Answer by MamaChamp at 12:18 PM on Feb. 17, 2010

  • if he left me for another woman ... i would have never taken him back to begin with.... maybe you should call cheaters on him...
    AmaliaD

    Answer by AmaliaD at 12:29 PM on Feb. 17, 2010

  • I would leave his ass and never look back.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:35 PM on Feb. 17, 2010

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