So I went to pick up my boys from the Babysitters today and she says to me, "I cant control your son(oldest-2yrs), He doesnt want to listen. He is insistant on doing what he wants. I think maybe he nees more structure, like a daycare Facility." I feel like the worst mother ever! Yes he is difficult and has a mind of his own but I just thought that was part of being two? Am I wrong? Then like 5 min later she starts talking about my Youngest(9mo) and how he just smiles all the time and is so easy going. I don't know what to think!?! Any input is appreciated, Please dont judge. Thank YouAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 2:49 PM on Feb. 18, 2010 in About CafeMom
Answer by Anonymous at 2:51 PM on Feb. 18, 2010
Answer by peanutsmommy1 at 2:52 PM on Feb. 18, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 2:53 PM on Feb. 18, 2010
I would just find a different baby sitter regardless, she sounds to me that she doesn't know what the terrible two's are all about. No ones child is a complete angle. Your are not the worst mother you babysitter needs to realize that the terrible two's are a hard age and your child does have a mind of his own and she can't control every little thing that he does. GL again your aren't a bad mom AT ALL.............................
Answer by raemommy at 2:55 PM on Feb. 18, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 3:02 PM on Feb. 18, 2010
Structure is every important from the get go. If he is like that at home he will act no different in someones home or in public. Be consistence in his discipline at home and in public. Doing that you will not have problems as he ages.
Answer by Anonymous at 3:39 PM on Feb. 18, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 4:45 PM on Feb. 18, 2010
Answer by FoxyRoxyMommy at 7:10 PM on Feb. 18, 2010