my ex husband & I have two kids 7, & 3. I pick up ( he is legally blind) so he can attend his daughters swim lessons.. its a little weird his girl friend ( also legally blind) come to.. even though he was out of their life for 7 months I allow him to see them whenever he wants because thats what my daughter wants.. She is not comfortable calling him dad, but he insists.. she is hurt because he stood by & watched her cry when he told her he couldn't be in her life. she thought she made him mad & he wasn't coming back, but now she is happy he is around.. so would you spend time with your ex for his & your kid(s)Answer Question
Answer by myheartx4 at 12:49 AM on Feb. 19, 2010
Answer by Jan0609momma at 12:50 AM on Feb. 19, 2010
I cannot count how many times my husband and I have spent time with the ex's for our children. Just recently my oldest and I went on a trip and I asked my ex if he wanted to meet us there. I went out to eat and spent quite a bit of time with my ex husband, our boys and his girlfriend. We even went to DC all together for the day. It works out great for the kids. My husband's ex wife has stayed at our home with her daughter included when she flew my stepson here to live with us permanently. We have attended parent teacher conferences, visits to Santa and birthday parties all together because our children deserve to share those special moments with everyone that they love.
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