I told my friend that her kids need her!
She has been posting on her facebook everynight, going out for drinks with my girls this has been going on for over a month now. So I said something to her in chat (private) "I don't mean to sound like a bitch, but don't you think your kids need you". she wrote back "...shut your fu*king mouth.. I do plenty with my kids.." do you think I was out of line? read whole question first please.
I have known this girl 15 yrs, she has a 9 yr old who her mother has been raising (but lives with my friend), and she even lost custody to the father for over a year. Then she got prego again (differnet man) and had another child who will be 2 soon. she works 8-6 (not complaining about her work). but before work her kids go to the grams while she goes to the gym at 6am! then after work, she goes out with her girls. She doesn't pick her kids up until 10 pm or later at her moms. Therefore her mother ....
Asked by Anonymous at 7:17 AM on Feb. 19, 2010 in Just for Fun
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Answer by sati769leigh at 8:39 AM on Feb. 19, 2010
You didn't sound high and mighty at all to me, although it might have been better done face to face your intention was admirable. But don't stop now. Have her over or better yet, go to home and say in person how you feel, that way she can SEE and FEEL your emotions. Good Luck
Answer by jblueeyes228 at 9:15 AM on Feb. 19, 2010
I know you mean well but it sounds like her problem big time if her mom doesn't mind taking care of her kids then that is her fault, but as far as you telling her stuff that is not your place I know you care for her and especially the kids but all you can do for now is pray and be there for the kids if ever they would need you. You are a good friend though and she is too blind to see that she is so wrapped up in her so called single life she doesn't see that. Just take care of yourself if only we had more people like you in this world it would be a happy world :) GL
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