Last year I met a great guy and he knows that I have 3 children and recently divorced. I was only intending it to be just a casual fling but he ended up wanting more than just that. We ended up developing feelings for one another, and it wasn't a rebound thing at all. I had been over my marriage for quite some time even before it was finalized legally. The only issue is that this guy does not see having any future with me. Not saying that I want to settle down and marry him this second, but there are just too many things that seem odd to me. For instance, he does not want children at all yet knows I have 3 of my own from my marriage. Also, he plans on leaving the country after he completes his degree. He is in college studying Japanese and wants to move to Japan. He just wants us to 'live in the moment' but I dont think I could continue something the possibility of no future in it. I dont love for 'thrills'.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 2:44 PM on Feb. 20, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by kimigogo at 2:48 PM on Feb. 20, 2010
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Answer by mommymadness30 at 3:03 PM on Feb. 20, 2010
okay so you have a child with him? thought you said you just had children from a previous marriage and he had none?
staying in the relationship because of our child
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 3:08 PM on Feb. 20, 2010
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