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How do you i know if he really has changed?

Me & A guy ive know for 4 years have been hooking up off and on for 3years this year hardly more in the other 2 years, we have so many memories together and deep down i do believe we love each other, but for the 3 years we've hooked up hes cheated on girlfriends and even played me. He claims to have changed after us not hooking up for a whole year, i want to trust him but how do i know for sure?What are things for me to look for

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Asked by Anonymous at 6:10 PM on Feb. 21, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Once a cheater always a cheater.

    Answer by Gailll at 6:15 PM on Feb. 21, 2010

  • I would be willing to bet he hasn't changed. How transparent is his life to you? Does he hide his phone and can you check the computer for who he is emailing?

    Answer by CorrinaWithrow at 6:20 PM on Feb. 21, 2010

  • Once a cheater always a cheater.
    He's played you and other girls for three years. He's never commited to you, and now he's suddenly claiming he's changed.
    He's seeing that you're questioning him, and that leads him to feel like you're going to call it quits forever. He doesn't want to lose you as a convience, so he claims he's changed. That's all you are to him is a convenience. Ditch him. He's not worth it.

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 6:35 PM on Feb. 21, 2010

  • Of course, he claims that. They always do and we always believe them bc we want to believe. That's not love. That's relationship addiction.

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:51 PM on Feb. 21, 2010

  • What should you look for?
    A new relationship.

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:35 AM on Feb. 22, 2010

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