Me and my love of 3 years hit a huge rough spot in the past year...inbetween there was a BIG suprize (I'm pregnant) which was even rougher at the time on us because unexpected. We've been engaged but needed to patch things up better!
ANYWAYS! is there a way to make it work? we both try and one or both always has trust or miscommunication problems..We want to make it work..but don't understand how..I love him and am in love with him he says the same about me..I have a hard time getting over the past. For him it's reading me wrong or he says i don't make him feel he's good enough..(idt understand) Please help! any advice but not bitchy advice! it's depressing when were not together were well basially dead...I just don't know what to do...
If this is confusing well we both want more than anything to be happy with eachother and work it out..How can I let go of past? maybe it is mostly me..how to make it work
Try Family counseling. Good luck and hope you can work things out.
Answer by Raeann11 at 8:05 PM on Feb. 21, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 8:07 PM on Feb. 21, 2010
Relationship have there rocky times and if your relationship is strong and worth saving to the both of you then you will work hard on saving it. If you love one another then you two need to get over the issues you have with one another and work on the relationship. Keeping a relationship strong you have to work at it, at all times. Problem don't fix there self. So you two need to figure it the issues you all have and fix them if it's worth it to you both if only one of you wants to work things out then sorry it's not gonna work. Just keep the issues you have with one another separate from the baby the child has nothing to do with it no matter if it the child was a surprise or not. GL and I hope you two can work things out. It's a hard thing to do you have to believe in the relationship and yourself.
Answer by raemommy at 8:09 PM on Feb. 21, 2010
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