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If I had sex on the 11th of January (the last day of my period) with guy #1 and again on January 27th with guy #2 and I am now 23 weeks prego, who is most likely the father? I really need help

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 11:49 AM on Jun. 26, 2008 in Pregnancy

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  • I would say most likely guy #1. But depending on your cycle it could go either way. I think you need to look up and ovulation cycle and see approximately when you ovulate in accordance with your cycle. Also don't forget sperm can remain viable for up to five days in your uterus.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:54 AM on Jun. 26, 2008

  • I would say the second guy because more than likely you were not ovulating when you had sex with the first one.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:49 PM on Jun. 26, 2008

  • guy #2 since you had sex with him closer to when the average women with the average cycle ovulates.
    retz

    Answer by retz at 1:00 PM on Jun. 26, 2008

  • I would definitely say guy #2 as long as you ovulate normally. I can't see you ovulating 1-5 days after your period so it would probably be #2
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:57 PM on Jun. 26, 2008

  • If you have a normal 28 day cycle you ovulate 11 days after the FIRST day of your period. According to the pamphlet I have from an old ovulation kit these are your "most fertile" days. (24-36 hours after the second number)
    cycle length : #of days after 1st day of last per. when ov. starts
    21/22 : 5-8, 23 : 6-9, 24 : 7-10, 25: 8-11, 26 : 9-12, 27 : 10-13
    28 : 11-14, 29 : 12-15, 30 : 13-16
    Most women have a 28 day cycle (this is considered Regular) which would have placed your date of conception roughly the 15 - 18th of January. Now your cycle may be longer so that is what really needs to first be determined. Count the number of days from the day AFTER the last day of a period until the LAST day of the following period. This is you cycle. Then Start with the FIRST day of your period and add the corresponding number of days when you are most likely ovulating.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:23 PM on Jun. 26, 2008

  • I was inseminated around 2/1 and the doc tells me that I'm 23 weeks so my guess would be guy #2.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:35 PM on Jun. 26, 2008

  • If you have a normal 28 day cycle you ovulate 11 days after the FIRST day of your period. According to the pamphlet I have from an old ovulation kit these are your "most fertile" days. (24-36 hours after the second number)
    cycle length : #of days after 1st day of last per. when ov. starts
    21/22 : 5-8, 23 : 6-9, 24 : 7-10, 25: 8-11, 26 : 9-12, 27 : 10-13
    28 : 11-14, 29 : 12-15, 30 : 13-16
    Most women have a 28 day cycle (this is considered Regular) which would have placed your date of conception roughly the 15 - 18th of January. Now your cycle may be longer so that is what really needs to first be determined. Count the number of days from the day AFTER the last day of a period until the LAST day of the following period. This is you cycle. Then Start with the FIRST day of your period and add the corresponding number of days when you are most likely ovulating.
    WHAT?! in english please! I don't folow are there simpiler ways to figure it out?.......
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:34 PM on Jun. 26, 2008

  • i think guyh number 2 because it seems like it would probably be closer your ovualtion date
    breehalley

    Answer by breehalley at 6:31 PM on Sep. 23, 2008

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