I did everything backwards... got pregnant, my husband (boyfriend at the time) moved in, we got pregnant again, got married then bought our house... we were together for 7 years before we got married! All my friends are still either single... or married with complications! I just hate to see the effects from it... not only to the couple but to their kids! Its sad! I just wish that people would be more sure about marriage before they go off and get hitched! Then again, I do have a friend that was with her hubby for many many years and then got divorced! Sad!!! Its going around so much right now... its like a flu bug... one that I WILL NOT catch!!! I just dont see how people dont try to fix their problems in their marriage before getting a divorce! SAD SAD SAD!
at 3:18 PM on Feb. 22, 2010