I kissed a lot of frogs before I met my handsome prince...
I dated a lot of guys, had sex with several, and always used birth control, the one time I thought there might even be a chance the BC didn't work, I used "Plan B" to ensure there was no pregancy. I wanted to make sure I did not get pregnant until I was married to the man I knew for sure would make a great and loyal husband, and a dedicated father.
I read about so many mothers who had careless sex with a man they knew was no good. Women who thought with their hearts instead of their brains.
I chose my husband carefully, I waited until I was 31 to get married, turned town 2 proposals from two different guys in previous years because I just wasn't sure they were the best choice.
I am glad I waited. I have two wonderful daughters and an amazing husband. Our 9th anniversary is in April, together 11 yrs.
How did you choose your child's father?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:15 AM on Feb. 22, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Zakysmommy at 11:18 AM on Feb. 22, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 11:18 AM on Feb. 22, 2010
I kissed a few frogs, used BC, met my prince, got married (at 24) and had two kids. Been married for 21 years.
Answer by beeky at 11:57 AM on Feb. 22, 2010
Answer by ecodani at 11:58 AM on Feb. 22, 2010
How did I choose? I married him first and then we decided together to expand our family and raise a child together. We met in high school, dated all through college, he supported my efforts when I went on to graduate school, and then when I completed my degrees....we made the decision we were financially ready to take on the responsibility of a child. It was never about not being mentally and emotionally prepared. We both knew we would make good parents. But being able to afford the things we wanted for our child was very different. Like good health care, a safe home, a good neighborhood, clothes, ect... Love was not enough. Love didn't pay the bills or put food on the table.
Answer by frogdawg at 12:14 PM on Feb. 22, 2010
Answer by 3gigglemonsters at 12:15 PM on Feb. 22, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 1:51 PM on Feb. 22, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 2:13 PM on Feb. 28, 2010