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i have a friend that pisses me off to where i just wanna give up!!

i have to stay anon on this as she is on this site...
she makes plans and at the very i mean very last second dissapears or "her phone died" that kind of crap... her kid and my kid are good friends but she keeps doing this shit!!
weve been friends for 8+ years.... ggggaaaaaaaawwwwww she is annoying!!
what can i do to piss her off? i wanna get even ive tried talking to her ive tried commenting on it like your not gonna bail on me this time are ya? she says no then its 50-50 if she will bail....

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 1:35 PM on Feb. 22, 2010 in Relationships

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  • get a different friend. seriously it will probably make her jealous and get you a better a friend.
    Christina2135

    Answer by Christina2135 at 1:37 PM on Feb. 22, 2010

  • Then you just have to tell her no. When she makes a plan, simply tell her "No thanks. I will not be going." If she asks why, tell her, "Id rather not go." What if you told her "Ok, call me when you arrive and I will come." ??
    3gigglemonsters

    Answer by 3gigglemonsters at 1:47 PM on Feb. 22, 2010

  • I would have to seriously consider...is this person really my 'friend'? A friend keeps their committments unless there is an emergency. A friend is honest if they cannot or choose not to attend. I would simply re-evaluate my relationship with this person and if needed....back away slowly and find new friends.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:28 PM on Feb. 22, 2010

  • after 8 years she is more like family,, lol. i just would stop making plans and tell her she bails too much.. live you life..
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:01 PM on Feb. 22, 2010

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