My daughter's father and I are trying to make our relationship work, after 1.5 years of ups and downs. He wants to start spending more time at my apartment, but I don't really want him to. My one-bedroom apartment is tiny, it's barely big enough for my 19 month old and me to move around in, let alone adding my boyfriend too. I start feeling really crowded when he spends a lot of time here, and I can't wait for him to go home. It's not because I don't care him...it's just that I already gave up my bedroom to my daughter, and am sleeping in the livingroom. So when he comes over, guess where we spend the most time together? IN THE LIVINGROOM. I don't feel like I have any personal space, because he tends to "spread out"-his clothes and stuff, etc. I hope I'm making sense!!
Is there something wrong with me? I tried to mention it to him, and he kinda took it the wrong way...
Any advice? Thank you.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:26 PM on Feb. 22, 2010 in Relationships
I have been married 18 years and even in a 3 bedroom house sometimes there just isn't enough space! And I certainly never have any space that's just mine! I have two boys and my DH's 9 year old 1/2 sister right now! I can't go any where! Not even the bathroom without someone bothering me! lol So I know what you're feeling! I think if he's the right guy he'll understand that it's YOUR space and when he comes his stuff takes up too much space!! Especially with a toddler!! He should respect that, if he doesn't then maybe he's not the one!
Answer by Austinsmom35 at 12:06 AM on Feb. 23, 2010
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Answer by Anonymous at 10:51 PM on Feb. 22, 2010
Why does a 19 month old need a bedroom to herself? Most rooms easily can fit a bed and a toddler bed.. You must not love him that much..I am happy to be with my hubby wherever, I'm happy just to be with him..
Answer by Anonymous at 10:54 PM on Feb. 22, 2010
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