I'm married to a sweet man. We've been married for 4 years now. I love him dearly, but we've had about a handful of problems with this drinking since we've been married. Everytime he drinks, we argue. He doesn't drink all the time, but when he does he gets aggressive. I lived a very sheltered life as a child. My parents didn't argue. I lived a very happy childhood. I'm not used to arguing. This past weekend we went to a party and and he drank too much. He cursed at me in front of everyone and threw his cell phone in the car while I was on the freeway. He has NEVER put a hand on me. I would leave ASAP. I also just found out that he smoked something else besides his cigar. I'm VERY upset about this. We have 2 children, 2 and under. I don't want them to see us argue. What should I do? How can I make this situation better? Should I just give up on our marriage? I want the best for my kids and myself.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 2:13 PM on Feb. 23, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by maxsmom11807 at 2:17 PM on Feb. 23, 2010
He needs to get help. If drinking makes him violent then get help. I would talk to him when things are good and he hasn't been drinking. He threw a phone, what next he hits you or gets rough and yells at the kids. If he is unwilling to change this destructive behavior, give him an ultimatum and leave for your and your children's safety! I will pray for you, good luck!
Answer by zakityzak at 2:19 PM on Feb. 23, 2010
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Answer by Anonymous at 4:29 PM on Feb. 23, 2010
Tell him to smoke that "other stuff" instead of drink. I guarantee that would help.
Answer by Anonymous at 8:23 PM on Feb. 23, 2010
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