I've lived here a little while and it has been hard to make friends. I'm in a church that doesn't have any other members my age. I made a few friends babysitting for another church. My DH is a minister and meets with other ministers, so I'm starting to get to know another minister's wife. But ultimately, I don't really hang out with anyone hardly ever. Good luck!
Oh, I wanted to add that you can make friends with the spouses of your husband's co-workers. I asked my husband who he liked at his office and asked about their marital status and children. I met another SAHM that is around my age with children around my boys' age.