So i am 13 weeks pregnant with our second child. we havea 2 1/2 year old dd. i had mirena in since she was born and had it taken out in may of '09.with HIS approval.so i got pregnant in dec, and he was thrilled by any means. he wasnt mean, just didnt reall say anything.so i took that as just shock. thats fine. well my ist bab appt is tomorrow and hes going with me but he's not excited about it. evertime i talk about the new baby he says"can you talk about something interesting?" and wont discuss names,andyes he said he wanted another baby.hence the no bc.no condoms. he doesnt even sound excited when he tells his family members. he said "its just another bill" . im THRILLED about this new baby and everyone else is except my dh. its really starting to upset me. i asked if he will be in the room for the US and he said "SIGH..i guess so".Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 7:29 PM on Feb. 24, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by Anonymous at 8:01 PM on Feb. 24, 2010
I would tell the asshole that if he wasn't really ready for this, then HE SHOULD HAVE SAID SO! I'm sorry but this struck a nerve... because I went through the same thing with our last baby. I then would proceed to tell him since he could not man up and tell you his true feelings, then he can at least suck it up and be there for you! It's the least he can do. His attitude is going to cause anger and resentment from you towards him and you both do not want that.
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