soo im 18 and a single mommy to a wonderful baby boy who is a year old..so when my son was turning a year his dad decided to leave when he left he told me he didnt love me no more he kept coming back but one time he actually admitted to have had a girlfriend when he left me..its been 6 months and his with that girl..he doesnt come around no more he is focused on her and only her they are getting married.i dont talk bad to my son about his dad i dont mention him nobody does really when im around my family its like nobody even knew him my mom holds a grudge against him and she hates hearing about him..up to now im okay i goto school and work..so my question is i sometimes i feel like nobody would take me serious like everybody sees me but they dont see my kid..i feel lonely all the time:is it wrong to hate him its a long story to tell he was an a hole put it like that;im just afraid my son will never have a father figureAnswer Question
Answer by Anonymous at 9:41 PM on Feb. 24, 2010
Your still young and there is a whole world of options out there for you..just don't settle. Try not to hate the father because in time you'll be over him and you'll just want your boy to have a drama free relationship with him. So be as nice as you can, encourage him to spend time with his son. Your still coming into your own, just remember that a healthy relationship is when your with someone who raises your self esteem and supports you.
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