She came over to see my son today, and proceeded to tell me that my aunt (who has 3 kids, 1 is autistic) thinks she may be pregnant again, even though she has her tubes tied. I was happy for her, excited about a new little nephew, but before I could even get any words out my grandmother blurted out, "If shes pregnant again, I'm telling her to terminate it, what if it turns out like the last one". I don't even have words to describe what went through my head when she said that. My aunt is an amazing mother, and I am pro choice, but I don't think it was even close to right of her to say she was going to TELL her to terminate it, or say "what if it turns out like the last one". That broke my heart. I told her "Well, she knows what she can handle, and if she thinks she can handle another kid, let her make her own choice". But it's like she didn't even hear me. Should I say something to my grandma again? Or keep my mouth shut?
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