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Gay men, women TTC, who should be allowed here and who shouldn't?

Okay, would you want cafemom to open it's door to say gay men if they are the "moms" in the family? What about women who are TTC their first, therefore aren't moms yet, should they not be allowed here? I just want opinions because women who are TTC are allowed here but aren't actually moms, whereas gay men aren't allowed here even though they are considered "moms". Thoughts?


Asked by Anonymous at 3:17 PM on Feb. 25, 2010 in Just for Fun

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Answers (19)
  • I love my gay men, but sorry, this is CafeMOM, not CafePersonWhoFulfillsTheRoleofMotherButHasAPenis.

    Answer by caitxrawks at 6:47 PM on Feb. 25, 2010

  • They don't allow men period on here.

    Answer by ldsdragonmom at 3:20 PM on Feb. 25, 2010

  • I honestly don't think any man should be here, gay or not, parent or not. Many women talk about very personal female issues on the answer section and in groups and many of those are just not meant for men's eyes. Frankly I wouldn't want a man reading about possible excessive vaginal moisture during my period (which is not true, just an example) and asking what to do about it. If I wanted men to see that I'd talk to my husband about it, not a site meant for women.

    Answer by Mom2Jack04 at 3:20 PM on Feb. 25, 2010

  • NO MEN PERIOD!!!! they have their own sites!

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:25 PM on Feb. 25, 2010

  • Does anyone of you know if ALL of the CM members really are women? Who knows, maybe your husband/boyfriend/borther whoever is on here as well just to figure out what you are writing.

    I dont see a problem with men being on here, as well as women who are ttc.

    Answer by maja2007 at 3:26 PM on Feb. 25, 2010

  • I'd rather have a gay man on here than a Self Righteous mom who likes to Bash other moms !!!!

    Answer by LatinMamiOf2 at 3:28 PM on Feb. 25, 2010

  • Maja no they aren''s easy for men to pretend to be female and sign up and they do. On the Diabetes group a man posted once saying "my wife" and he was reported and promptly removed from cafemom. Of course it was obvious as his user name had "Neil" in it. But until he said something showing he was in fact a male cafemom couldn't do anything.

    I'm sure there are LOTS of men who get their kicks out of it, and I'm sure some legitimate men wanting parenting help or advice....but they could easily create a CafeDad site or similiar site if none exist already

    Answer by Mom2Jack04 at 3:28 PM on Feb. 25, 2010

  • Not caring

    Answer by Allergic2Stupid at 3:28 PM on Feb. 25, 2010

  • TTC women are trying to become moms. Sorry, gay men are still, well, MEN

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:17 PM on Feb. 25, 2010

  • LOL. Who cares. Almost everyone here at CM is screwed up.....maybe the guys would at least bring some down to earth,honest opinions.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:20 PM on Feb. 25, 2010